Gift ideas & occasion reminders

Be the person who always shows up.

The relationship app that keeps you ahead of every important date — with AI-powered gift ideas and booking links built around each person.

Free to download. 14-day free trial — no charge until day 15.

Good morning, Drew
Next up — Emma's birthday, in 68 days
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Emma
Birthday · On your radar
68days
Beauty & Skincare Wine & Spirits Wellness
Planning window · 68 days
GIFT INTELLIGENCE PICKS FOR EMMA
Summer Fridays Lip Butter Balm — multi-shade set
The viral luxury she'd never justify buying herself — genuinely just for her.
New shades sell out fast — order soon
Beaufort Wine & Food Festival
50+ wines, live music — a rare glamorous night out, right in her backyard.
Tickets sell out weeks ahead — book now
Planning note — Festival tickets benefit local arts nonprofits, and featured wines are available at below-retail prices on the night.

Thoughtfulness on autopilot,
even when you forgot.

The date you swore you wouldn't miss is three days out — and you haven't bought a thing. Forget Me Not catches it before you do: it reminds you with enough runway to act, then hands you a real idea that still lands in the time you've got left. Whether you planned for weeks or remembered this morning, you come through the same way — like someone who never dropped it.

How it works

Three steps. Then it runs quietly in the background.

1

Add the people who matter

Their name, your relationship, and the occasions you can't miss — birthdays, anniversaries, Mother's Day, Father's Day, or anything you name yourself. Add interests and a budget to sharpen the ideas later.

2

Get reminded early — not the day of

Reminders arrive weeks ahead by default — three weeks, one week, and the day before — so there's still time to order, book, or plan something good.

3

See ideas tuned to the person — and the time you have left

As the date gets closer, tap for gift and experience suggestions built around that person — with direct links to shop or book, whatever the timeline.

What makes it different

A reminder is the easy part. Knowing what to do is the rest.

Time-aware suggestions

Ideas that know what day it is.

A month out, you'll see made-to-order gifts and experiences worth planning. A few days out, things that still arrive on time. Down to the wire, same-day and digital options. The app reads the calendar so the suggestion always fits the window you're actually in.

30–90 daysMade-to-order gifts, experiences, travel
8–29 daysStandard shipping, dinner reservations
3–7 daysFast shipping, local pickup, digital
0–2 daysSame-day local & digital that still lands
Built around the person

Suggestions shaped by the actual person.

It works from what you know about them — your relationship, their interests, their budget, the notes you've jotted down, and what's changed in their life lately. The more you share, the sharper the ideas get.

PartnerAnniversary · 23 daysWhiskeyHikingLive music$100–$200Just started runningAsheville, NC
Gift Intelligence

We call it Gift Intelligence.

Every pick is more than a raw AI guess. It pairs what the app knows about the person with a curated layer of current gift trends — the same Gift Intelligence picks you'll see labeled inside the app — so what you get feels current and personal, not recycled from the same five gift guides.

Curated from sources worth trusting
A maintained set of trending gifts and makers, refreshed each season and matched to the person's interests.
Matched to their world
Trends only surface when they actually fit who you're shopping for — no filler.
Gift memory

It remembers what you already gave.

Log what you gave each year, and Forget Me Not keeps it in mind — so next year's ideas stay fresh instead of quietly circling back to the same thing.

2024 — Oura Ring, rose gold
She loves it — still on her wrist. Retired from your idea pool forever.
2025 — Private chef's table dinner for two
Logged. The app already knows not to go there again.
2026 — something she hasn't unwrapped from you yet
Two years on file. Every idea you see from here is one she hasn't gotten from you — the suggestions stay as good as the first one.
Gifts & experiences

Not just things — moments.

Alongside gift ideas, you'll get experience and restaurant suggestions — a distillery tour, a tasting menu, a local jazz brunch — matched to their interests and where they live. Direct links to OpenTable and Viator so one tap gets you there. Most gift apps never leave the product aisle. We think experiences are often the better answer.

Guided craft distillery tour — Asheville's spirit trail
Three local distilleries, a guide, no logistics. Whiskey interest + your city + 23 days out — no planning required.
Explore on Viator →
Corner Kitchen — chef's tasting menu for two
Asheville's best farm-to-table. Fits the anniversary, the $150 range, and the moment.
Reserve on OpenTable →
Why it feels different

Nothing else does both.

Gift reminder apps are shallow — they ping you on the day and leave you on your own. Serious relationship apps like personal CRMs have the depth, but they deliberately ignore gifting. Forget Me Not is the only app that combines both: relationship context and urgency-aware AI ideas that arrive early enough to actually use. It turns showing up for people from something you forget into something you're known for.

Privacy

Your relationships stay yours.

There's no account to create and no central database of your life. The details about the people you track live on your device. When you ask for AI ideas, the app sends that person's details to our AI provider to generate suggestions — processed in the moment, not retained.

  • Stored on your device — no sign-up, no profile of you
  • We never sell your data
  • No ads, anywhere
  • Delete everything in one tap, anytime
Read the full privacy policy →
Pricing

Try it free for 14 days.

Download free and start your trial. You won't be charged until day 15, and you can cancel anytime before then.

forget me not
Everything, for everyone you track
$34.99/year or $4.99/month · save ~42% annually
  • Track unlimited people and occasions
  • AI gift & experience ideas with booking links
  • Time-aware suggestions tuned to each date
  • Gift memory, so ideas never repeat
  • Multi-stage reminders, weeks ahead
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Billed through the App Store. Cancel anytime before day 15 and you won't be charged.

The person who always shows up — that can be you.

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